tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5565595409211773785.post4656339136456622253..comments2023-09-30T11:54:59.095+02:00Comments on Ideas and Opinions: Children - between cruelty and honestyKleopatrahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14670239124771015678noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5565595409211773785.post-76627156160789480702012-09-13T20:55:51.802+02:002012-09-13T20:55:51.802+02:00Never mind about telling things you just heard, I ...Never mind about telling things you just heard, I appreciate every opinion. :)<br /><br />I am not a therapist and I don't have children on my own, all I can tell is my humble experience, but I do not know if anything of this is right! I agree very much that home atmosphere and parents activity are very important. But nonetheless I don't fully understand it... I was a very shy child and my brother was always completely different from that, but we have the same parents, obviously, as he is my brother. <br /><br />During my time as a coach there was a "difficult" child and later I learnt it has had a very difficult situation at home... <br /><br />I think parents should think more about it, it's so important, they have such a great impact on their children. As I have said, I already had a huge influence on the children I coached and I did not see them often... So how huge must then be a mother's influence.<br /><br />Thank you for your input. :)<br /><br />Kleopatrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14670239124771015678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5565595409211773785.post-59258006415791605172012-09-13T17:56:34.674+02:002012-09-13T17:56:34.674+02:00This is a field where I have no experience!
I'...This is a field where I have no experience!<br /><br />I've seen the bullying kind of child interact with their environment.<br />Also the shy, and withdrawn children<br />and even autistic children once or twice.<br /><br />But I cannot correlate their behaviour to anything I recognise or know.<br /><br />What I have heard from the professional field, is just that, knowledge from hearing<br />not living the situation.<br /><br />Most therapists I heard about these disorders blame the home atmosphere and parents activity.<br /><br />The trend was to explain the wrong behaviour to external causes more than to the possibility of putting the source of cause in children themselves. They speak of "learned behaviour", from family or social rank.<br /><br />I rely on your experience and really believe that even if children can be very cruel, they are honest in their intent, at least until they learn to hide their feelings, and actions.<br /><br />I guess this is an expert's field that even some parents never thought about.<br /><br />This is what I know, pretty boring, since I cannot make use of anything but heard knowledge! :)<br /><br />Anyway, it is a very interesting subject, important to the development of society as a whole.<br /><br />Thank you, K. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5565595409211773785.post-43390579006258873992012-09-12T16:55:20.181+02:002012-09-12T16:55:20.181+02:00Thank you, I will have a look at it.Thank you, I will have a look at it.Kleopatrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14670239124771015678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5565595409211773785.post-55021408527068334922012-09-12T16:53:24.969+02:002012-09-12T16:53:24.969+02:00Of course they might get rebellious when they don&...Of course they might get rebellious when they don't get what they want, but I think that is totally different from being cruel. I also think the intention of children is usually not cruel, whereas some adults know about the cruelty of their deeds, so maybe that is the difference. <br /><br />I love the honesty of children and I love their ability to be happy about so many little things that adults don't even recognize. As you said, they see the beauty behind ordinary things.<br /><br />That is so cute about you not lying because you didn't want your nose to grow like Pinocchio's. :)<br /><br />Thank you! I really enjoy your comments! :)Kleopatrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14670239124771015678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5565595409211773785.post-63348712654422362852012-09-12T14:39:17.199+02:002012-09-12T14:39:17.199+02:00nice blog checkout my blog at
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